Tuesday, January 15, 2013

The Hole in our Holiness - Week 1



Our study group will be focusing on The Hole in Our Holiness by Kevin DeYoung over the next 10 weeks.  Each Tuesday (or Wednesday), I’ll post a short blog post going over the major talking points of the evening.  I feel like this is good both for me to review and think because I process through writing and also to allow absentee members to see what we discussed. 

The official definition of holiness is to be specially dedicated or devoted to serving God and having spiritually pure qualities.  From there, we can discuss at length what exactly holiness means to each of us.  Holiness can definitely be encouraging in the fact that we see that it can bring us closer to the Lord and also can allow us to live more like Christ did.  Unfortunately, it can be discouraging as well.  Knowing that we sin and ultimately fail to live that perfect life can lead to feelings of apathy.  “I failed so now God can just show me more grace.  It’s ok.”  Overcoming that mindset is a challenge indeed.  We can’t just decide that we’re not going to have that mindset.  We need to draw near to the Lord and ask Him to provide the strength, guidance, and wisdom to be holy.  

When we’re young, holiness is often a concept that is much too advanced for us to necessarily grasp with ease.  We understand that we need to be good and not disobey our parents but the idea of disobeying God can be intimidating or a foreign concept.  However, as we grow closer to God in our walk and begin to desire to be obedient to Him, we see our passion for holiness grow and develop.  We will begin to search the small areas of our life that sin resides in and look for ways to eradicate those sinful areas.  When thinking about God’s holiness, it’s not a far stretch to begin thinking about the holiness of Heaven.  We will normally think about how Heaven is a place of pure, spiritual bliss.  We are in the presence of our Savior.  As Kevin stated in his book, it’s important to realize that if we are not focusing on our holiness in the World, then holiness in Heaven will be awkward to be a part of.  

When we look at what exactly has resulted in the Hole in Our Holiness, many reasons can be at play.  People often see holiness as being unattainable due to the expectation that holiness equals 100% perfection.  This makes people fear the failure that can come with not attaining the perfection that they desire.  Also, even if we succeed and live a holy life, we don’t see that immediate extrinsic reward that we claim.  Our culture is one of instant gratification and we want that pat on the back, good job, I’m proud of you affirmation that we’re all looking.  Other issues that can lead to the hole are a lack of passion for our spiritual lives, pure laziness, or a lack of humility.  These are issues that can stand between us and growing closer to God that we all need to overcome.

In order to overcome the hole, there are simple things to keep in mind.  We must continue to grow our understanding of the Word.  It is the primary way in which God speaks to us and convenes with us in our daily life.  Also, be aware of the sin issues in our lives so as to not fall further into sin.  This is difficult because it forces us to admit our own faults and face them head on.  Focus on being obedient to the Lord.  If we’re living up to the standards laid out for us in the Bible, then we will grow closer to Holiness. Evaluate how you’re spending your time.  If you’re focused primarily on reaching for that brass ring, then that’s where your heart lies.  Be resolute in praying to the Lord to continue to bring about the change in us.  

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